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You wanted to go snow skiing and a warm front blew in from Hawaii an it rained for 3 straight days and the ski resorts in Tahoe delayed opening. You have no choice and rather than fret about it, you decide to spend the weekend hanging out at the beach and body surfing. Make something better out of a bad situation, <em>try to accept it. </em>
You can’t find your Rolex watch. It cost $15,000! You thought for sure it was on the nightstand, but its not. After looking everywhere for 2 hours, you realize that its lost. Will you panick and beat yourself up for weeks, months, even years? Will you blame others, most likely all of whom will be innocent? You decide that no material thing is worth these torments. You release that tiny chunk of metal back to the universe and accept it is gone.
And for all the ways it is a very healthy thing to do, particularly in this complex and material-centric life, you can accept the wrong things, too.
If your boss treats you poorly, but you fear losing your job if you don’t comply, so you decide to just accept it, DON’T! Life is too short to live every day under the oppression of a mean boss, or coworker, or spouse, or anyone else who has power over you.
<u><em>Have a good day, and i hope i helped! any further questions, just feel free to ask ;)</em></u>