the weather on the fifth night of Titanic's maiden voyage to New York caught the crew and the passengers off guard because ,simply put ,there was none .
icebergs are usually spotted with plenty of notice because water sloshes against them but there was none on the fifth night and the iceberg in this case was not spotted until far too late
I think the only part of our own life we can control is our own decisions and what we believe in. You can’t really control what happens to you and what doesn’t.