A dilemma is a forced choice between two options.
it's not specified whether it has to be between family or friends.
A moral dilemma is a a forced choice between two options of moral character. (the correct answer is the first one).
Cleaning up after environmental disasters
Joel Barlow in his Vision of Columbus (1787) states that he regrets that "we have transported and nursed too much feudal feelings from Europe" and he commands a series of items that should be done in order to restore what was lost.